Is There Life After Retirement?

Archive for December 2023

A few days ago I was biting into one of those wonderful little Biscoff cookies that I first discovered as a Delta Airlines treat and thought about how perfect it was. Crunchy but not hard. Just PERFECT.

Food junky that I am, my thoughts went to other textured foods. Last year my cousin Jeff turned me on to Zaxby’s chicken fingers. First “finger” wasn’t so great, but the second one … ah … the perfect layer of crumbly crunch — almost panko level — right before I was able to sink into the moist, tender chicken.

I’m originally from Steubenville, Ohio, home of DiCarlo’s Pizza (don’t even TRY to tell someone from the Ohio Valley that it’s not the best pizza ever). I could do 1,000 words on why I love it so, but right now, it’s all about the crust. You get both the crunch and the soft at the SAME TIME and it’s never too hard or too mushy.

So all morning I’ve been thinking about the crusty but still soft paradox. And this is what it made me realize:

It’s also the way I’d describe some of my favorite people. And THAT’S what I wanted to tell you.

So in one of my side hustles, I help a dear Maui friend write her monthly business newsletter. December is, by far, our favorite month to play with it, due to the opportunity to “repurpose” traditional holiday songs. So … sung to the tune of “Jingle Bells,” I give you –

I Found Shells!                

Dashing through the sand

on a Valley Isle beach day

O’er the waves we go

Laughing all the way

Bells on poi dogs ring

Making spirits bright

What fun it is to surf and sing a

Maui song tonight

O-OH! 

I found shells, puka shells

Treasures every day

Oh what fun it is do Ka’anapali Beach this way

O-OH! 

I found shells, puka shells

Treasures every day

Oh what fun it is do Ka’anapali Beach this way

A day or two ago

I took a kayak ride

And soon my pup name Kai

Was seated by my side.

The boat was lean and lank

Misfortune seemed its lot

We steered into a big ol’ wave

And then we got upsot

O-OH!

We found shells, puka shells

Treasures every day

Oh what fun it is do Ka’anapali Beach this way

I found shells, puka shells

More treasures every day

Oh what fun it is do Ka’anapali Beach this way

Throughout my life, I’ve engaged in activities such as drawing, painting, beading, miniature modeling and -on a more serious level – writing. But the one area that I have taken to a level of high art is … procrastination. I cannot count how many “item #437 on my to-do list” tasks got done simply to avoid a drawing board and water colors. Fearing the need to reclassify these as Former Hobbies, I figured it’s time to do SOMETHING. Anything. Make a pair of earrings, glue stuff together for a collage, do s-o-m-e-t-h-i-n-g. While pondering this a few months ago, I took off for a Cousins Road Trip to Virginia.

Loved the trip, love my family, loved the Massanutten Resort and its gorgeous acreage. Had my early morning coffee on the deck, enjoying both the beauty and the silence

It was a great week, in about a million ways.

Returning home, I unpacked and found a few “treasures” from my morning walks.

You know, how it seems like a good idea at the time? You save the things for awhile until they get shriveled and unrecognizable and finally thrown away? Yeah, that.

But then I remembered my self-admonishing about ‘do something.’ So I did.

Like most folks who intend to get around to projects someday, I have many supplies for that mythical day. So I marched into my garage and grabbed:

A $1.99 I May Use This Someday thrift store purchase

My always-present can of aerosol Mod Podge (yes, I have jars of it, too)

Does anyone else have a whole shelf of spray paint colors, “just in case?”

My trusty E6000, as crucially important as the gentler Ailene’s craft glue.

So not only are the memories of my Cousins Trip now preserved, but I also did SOMETHING. Other than drying time, it probably took less about 20 minutes.

I joke about my home being a “Museum of Marti’s Life” – full of wall hangings and mementos representing events of the past nearly 70 years. But the truth is: I wouldn’t have it any other way.

My fireplace mantel, where every item has its own story … Stop by, and I’ll tell you about them.

I am generally hesitant about fiction that weaves existing known people into a novel, as is often difficult to separate what is real from what is not. But this author touches lightly on the actual people while more deeply focusing on the fictional ones. I’d never heard of her previous books. Yes, it works as a stand-alone novel, but I do wish I’d read them first, mainly because now I’m very interested.

She has a literary writing style, yet it’s quite accessible and has a rhythm that’s easy to follow.

I was engrossed by both the story and the lives of the characters, but what most impressed me was the author’s insights.  Whether I was reading about screenwriting, Italy or post-WWII challenges, it “felt” genuine.  This is also true for offhand observations about life itself.  Here are some quotes which moved me to highlight:

“Such was the power of awe to ennoble and inspire, to subdue and control-something both the film and church were founded on.” 

or concerning post-war Italy: “…the sun was setting … above the sea and beaches where young men had once landed to rescue a country from itself …” 

or “Our secrets are who we really are.” 

one last one, then I’ll stop – “With some people, the past did not exist because they had not been changed by it.” 

I am not saying I totally agree with all observations, but truly liked that they were at least thought provoking. 

There are many, many characters and the author wisely added a “who’s who” type of preface. Had she not, I probably would have given up early on. 

And finally – yes, this book really touched me. But as with all art, there is no way truly break down why – it simply did. Looking forward to reading more of Jenner’s work.



  • v l: Hey Marti, I find it easy to not buy "stuff" on the regular. I don't think the ease of online shopping helps us in that regard. I already have enou
  • v l: Marti, I can empathize with your feelings on the current situation being experienced in the US. I do believe it is having more of a worldwide effect
  • drspires5c267a864f: Good evening, Marti. Dilemma, indeed….